Saturday, October 24, 2015

Advice to single people




















1.) Are you single, divorced, or a widower? Single.

2.) Do you prefer online dating or dating in person? Dating in person.

3.) Why do you prefer dating in person over online dating? It's easy for a person to lie online. The person can lie about their gender, lie about their age, lie about who they are, lie about where they live, and lie about being single if they are married when they are dating someone online. If you are dating someone in person & if the person is lying you have family & friends that can warn you if they feel that person is not right for you.

4.) Should single people get advice from single people like them or should single people get advice from married people? My answer will shock some people but I am going to say both.

5.) Why do you think that single people should get advice from both single people like them and married people too? Single people tend to go to other single people like them for advice. He or she feel that they can tell him or her things because they feel like that person who is single like they are will look out for their best interests. Single people tend to be good listeners (not all single people are good listeners but for the most part single people are good listeners) so a single person will know that he or she will give him or her good sound advice. Married people on the other hand, play a big part in single people meeting their spouse by not only giving advice but sometimes being the one that play matchmaker in him or her meeting their spouse. In order for any married person to be effective in matchmaking they have to pay attention to detail & being a good listener will allow the married person or married people to make sure that they are matching up singles with the right people.

6.) Do you as a single person prefer to get advice from single people like yourself or married people? I'm going to go with that I prefer to get advice from single people like myself.

7.) Why do you prefer to get advice from single people like yourself over married people? In all honesty from what I have observed not too many married people do a good job at listening when single people try to share things with them. Married people are becoming hasty & already have a spouse picked out for single people & it may not be who he or she is looking for in a spouse. Married people have that "want to hurry up and get single people married" mentality when it was different for them when they met their spouse. There is a big difference in listening to people & hearing people when they are expressing themselves. I've noticed a lot of this on social networking where married people are on social networking websites acting as single married people (people who are single on social networking who act like people who don't have friends but their only friend is their spouse). Married people mean well when they are encouraging single people & looking out for them when they are waiting on a spouse but they are a hindrance to them when they are not in agreement & looking out for God's best for them. As a single person myself, I am on social networking to be an encouragement to those who are single like myself, divorced, widowed, and widowers and that's it. I can't help out married people who want to be single or help them out if their marriage is rocky. The main reason why I write online is to try to be an encouragement to those who are single, divorced, widowed, and widowers because they are the big reason why I'm even on social networking.

8.) Do you think that the Lord can touch a married couple's heart to match make you or single people like you to meet a spouse? Yes.

9.) Do you think that the Lord can touch single people's heart to match make you or single people like you to meet a spouse? Yes.

10.) Do you think that the Lord can a touch married couples or single people hearts to do the same thing to match make divorced, widowed, or widowers to meet their spouse? Yes.

11.) You're so optimistic what inspires you to have such a strong faith? Romans 4:20-22. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans+4%3A20-22&version=KJV

12.) There is a good saying that "good things come to those who wait" do you agree with that saying why or why not? I agree. Isaiah 40:31 https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Isaiah+40%3A31&version=NKJV

13.) Do you have any advice that you want to give to those who are single like yourself, divorced, widowed, and widowers? Keep on being who the Lord want you to be. Be humble & an obedient servant of God who you want to have a wonderful relationship with.

14.) Give a good encouraging Bible Verse for those who are single, divorced, widowed, and widowers. Colossians 3:22-24. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Colossians+3%3A22-24&version=KJV














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