Can singles counsel & give good sound advice to married couples who are struggling their marriage? Check out my answer below.
The question is can singles give counseling & good sound advice to married couples who are struggling in their marriage? I am going to answer this question the best way I can give it. Singles should not and can't give counseling & good sound advice to married couples, widows, widowers, nor divorced couples. Singles can't give any counseling & good sound advice to any of the people in the categories because they are single and not experienced in any of those areas. Married couples who are having trouble in their marriage need to talk to happily married couples because they can give the husband & wife good sound advice as well as counseling. The problem & confused advice that married couples get is that they are being encouraged to get advice and learn from married couples like them & singles. The only thing that divorced couples, widows, widowers, unhappily married couples could benefit from people other then those who can relate to them in those areas is if there is a divine intervention (mediation) is involved. The same way that people who are not single can't relate to singles is the same way that singles can't relate to those who are married, divorced, widows, widowers, or unhappily married. Here is the secret, I have videos that I have in my blog that relate to divorced couples, widows, widowers, and even happily married couples because they can relate to those in their situation. I can't leave out singles like myself so naturally I'm going to have videos to encourage those who are single who went through a rough breakup or who are single and in a relationship.
People are probably wondering why on earth is someone like me have such a strong opinion about marriage, divorced, widows, widowers, unhappily married couples, and relationships period. It's simple, because I know a lot of friends who experienced all of this. I'm not no relationship expert or no marriage expert nor do I claim to be. However, I think that everyone should get good sound advice no matter what their statuses' are. Most people think how can someone have such a strong opinion on relationships & marriage and you would never know that I'm not married? It's because I think everyone deserve to be happy & have God's best for them. A good encourager will always try to be a good listener. I will always listen to people's problems & if I can help I will try to come up with the best solution to their problems but if I can't I am going to refer them to someone is experienced in the areas that I'm not experienced in. I said a mouth full but I hope that all of my readers understand where I'm coming from. I hope that all of my readers enjoy!
Getting advice from Godly Married Couples is encouraging to Christian Singles
Happily married couples can give singles good sound advice and sometimes can be the key to singles meeting their spouse through their matchmaking skills.
To all of those who are single like myself, I want to encourage y'all that happily married couples (Husband & Wife duo) can give singles who are in relationships leading towards marriage great sound advice. Just a married man & just a married woman cannot do that so it's highly recommended that you don't get advice from those kind of married people. Christian singles you are encouraged to get advice from fellow Christian singles & Godly married couples. Speaking from personal experience I found that when I shared anything with happily married couples I felt a whole lot more comfortable than when I shared things with single married people (just a married man or just a married woman). I know it can sound discouraging when we hear about different married people that met their spouse & we are wondering when is we are going to experience that ourselves. Trust me when I say this, it's all in God's timing because I am a single man who is waiting on God for my wife. It's all about doing what the Lord has called us to do while we are waiting to meet our spouse. Married couples have been really effective matchmakers when introducing singles to each other. There are churches where they have ministries where there are married couples who are matchmaking singles together (as husband & wife).
I wrote this blog for this very reason because it's healthy for us singles to talk to both fellow singles like ourselves & happily married couples. Times have changed & it seems hard to trust people nowadays but singles we have to trust in the Lord and ask him to give us wisdom when we are even talking to single people because there are single married people (married people who are unhappy in their marriage that act like they are single) and singles like ourselves. I hope that all of my readers enjoy!
I wrote this blog for this very reason because it's healthy for us singles to talk to both fellow singles like ourselves & happily married couples. Times have changed & it seems hard to trust people nowadays but singles we have to trust in the Lord and ask him to give us wisdom when we are even talking to single people because there are single married people (married people who are unhappy in their marriage that act like they are single) and singles like ourselves. I hope that all of my readers enjoy!
